Can I request references from the family”s previous Au Pairs?

The experience of being an Au Pair in the United States involves not only personal and cultural development but also a mutual trust relationship between the Au Pair and the host family. For this reason, many Au Pairs seek information about past experiences to have a basis on which to make an informed decision.

Indeed, it is perfectly acceptable and recommended that you ask for references from the family”s previous Au Pairs. This practice allows you to better understand the work environment, family dynamics, and expectations that may differ from one family to another.

By contacting former Au Pairs, you can obtain information about the routine, use of free time, communication with the family, and other points that are important for you to know before taking on this commitment.

However, it is essential to emphasize that, as with any aspect involving immigration processes, you should always seek information directly from official government sources and from companies or immigration consultancies specialized in compliance with U.S. laws. This prevents you from falling victim to scams, misinformation, or marketing campaigns that promise unattainable results.

Make sure to follow the guidelines established by the U.S. Department of State, especially because the J-1 visa (in the case of Au Pair) requires meeting specific requirements that ensure the safety and well-being of both parties involved.

In summary, requesting references from previous Au Pairs can be a valuable tool in your decision-making process, but it is imperative to act carefully and base your decisions on reliable sources and compliance with current immigration laws. This way, you will be better prepared to live the exchange experience with all the necessary security and knowledge.

Victoria Harper

Editor-in-Chief

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Leading journalism and editorial content at Visto n’ Visa, Victoria helps make immigration topics clear, trustworthy, and easy to understand. Her focus is on delivering useful, human, and relevant content for people exploring new paths abroad.